Friday, August 11, 2006
Chalat Khun Nong Khai (We love you Nong Khai)
Remember the last day of school, smiling from ear to ear, text books and trapper keepers tossed until next year. Well, today was our last day at Ban Prao Neau Primary School in Nong Khai and it wasn't like that at all. In fact, it was more like the last day of summer camp (not quite b/c it IS still school), but we were deeply saddened to leave the kids and the staff. Although we were there only two weeks, we were treated like family from Day One. Whether we took the yellow bus or rode our bikes (about 3.5miles), school was something to look forward to everyday. The love from the kids, their attention and desire to learn English, and their smiles will never be forgotten. Our experiences each day left us wanting to do more. And on Thursday, when a party was held in our honor, we exchanged keepsakes and gifts in a celebration that was truly unique. While we sat in the middle of all the students, a temple-like offering was burned for us, which was handmade from banana-leaves, flowers, candles, etc (we can show you video for a better visual). The staff held our hands and shoulders and blessed us and prayed for us for a happy life, good luck and many babies. Then, we were showered with cards that were presented one by one by each student, pre-k thru 6th grade. And then, we were adorned with handmade flower necklaces and bracelets and lastly, EACH student tied a white string on our wrists. So yes, we both currently have about 140 white string bracelts on each of our arms. It symbolizes many things - marriage, happiness, luck and also a good-bye tradition. In exchange, all we were able to do was buy them some things - a new soccer ball, an animated world map, about 20 Thai-English books, some stuffed animals, stickers and other supplies, as well as a few presents for the staff. Right now, it feels like we did what we were supposed to do, and maybe with time, we will better realize how truly special our Thai Experience was.
In addition to the teaching, we also experienced some local events and cultural traditions. As you can see in the pictures (link attached), one afternooon we spent a few hours giving out bags of rice to those in need. This event happens only once a year, and the people line up in huge lines with tickets to claim their bag of rice (one bag per person) and a few second-hand pieces of clothing. The elderly were helped by their kids and grandkids so that they could get their alloted bag. We also celebrated with Pei Lan, the matriarch of the organization that we are here volunteering for, the half-year Chinese New Year. On the half-year, offerings are made in front of each spirit house for the ancestors. A ridiculous amount of food - duck, chicken, rice, soda, but also paper clothes and money are burned for them as well. Again, quite an experience.
Lastly, we want to congratulate our good friend Reg, who recently finished 23rd in the 2006 World Series of Poker in Las Vegas. Couldn't have happened to a better guy, and we wish him luck in his turn to a professional.
Click here for some pics from our time in Nong Khai
In addition to the teaching, we also experienced some local events and cultural traditions. As you can see in the pictures (link attached), one afternooon we spent a few hours giving out bags of rice to those in need. This event happens only once a year, and the people line up in huge lines with tickets to claim their bag of rice (one bag per person) and a few second-hand pieces of clothing. The elderly were helped by their kids and grandkids so that they could get their alloted bag. We also celebrated with Pei Lan, the matriarch of the organization that we are here volunteering for, the half-year Chinese New Year. On the half-year, offerings are made in front of each spirit house for the ancestors. A ridiculous amount of food - duck, chicken, rice, soda, but also paper clothes and money are burned for them as well. Again, quite an experience.
Lastly, we want to congratulate our good friend Reg, who recently finished 23rd in the 2006 World Series of Poker in Las Vegas. Couldn't have happened to a better guy, and we wish him luck in his turn to a professional.
Click here for some pics from our time in Nong Khai
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Brad,
Reading and re-reading your blog today gave me the chills! You and Amanda are two very special people with hearts of GOLD. Not many people could or would do what the two of you are doing... and I know that is has and will create a lifetime memories for the two of you and the students/children which you met and educated. And, yes CONGRATS TO REG...someone should contact Regis Philman or ABC.
Jay (the catcher)
Reading and re-reading your blog today gave me the chills! You and Amanda are two very special people with hearts of GOLD. Not many people could or would do what the two of you are doing... and I know that is has and will create a lifetime memories for the two of you and the students/children which you met and educated. And, yes CONGRATS TO REG...someone should contact Regis Philman or ABC.
Jay (the catcher)
This last posting definitely trumps all of the earlier ones. Like Brad H, Pretty Mamma and I are also so happy that you did what you did and that you do keep in touch with those kids and "pay it forward" to them, however you can. We love the way you write and the emotions that you resonate to all of us. Keep it up all your lives. See you really soon!
B and A,
Everything you say in your blogs either makes me smile or makes me cry...but most of all...you make me so proud.
Your honeymoon has been truly amazing...but the volunteering has moved me like nothing else.
You have already made such a difference in so many lives...
See you soon.
Miami Mom
Everything you say in your blogs either makes me smile or makes me cry...but most of all...you make me so proud.
Your honeymoon has been truly amazing...but the volunteering has moved me like nothing else.
You have already made such a difference in so many lives...
See you soon.
Miami Mom
Excerps from Patti to Bob and Janet:
Amazing and thought provoking .....I couldn't help but think that while we (people from rich countries) think of "gifts" not as lasting, meaningful acts of kindness or sharing, but as "stuff" you go out and buy. The more expensive, the more memorable and meaningful! Bradley and Amanda's "gifts" were not the soccer ball,school supplies, etc., but real gifts of their time, love and respect for others -- and I purposely did not add the words "less fortunate." The gifts that were given to Bradley and Amanda -- were of equal value. Love, appreciation, respect and prayers -- how exquisitely powerful and personal.
Bradley and Amanda's travels have rekindled the feeling that sometimes -- no matter how young or old we are --we need to get outside of our "safe" space and live! The eternal gifts are the intangible memories and good deeds, not MACY'S!.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful family with me!!!!
XOXO PC
Amazing and thought provoking .....I couldn't help but think that while we (people from rich countries) think of "gifts" not as lasting, meaningful acts of kindness or sharing, but as "stuff" you go out and buy. The more expensive, the more memorable and meaningful! Bradley and Amanda's "gifts" were not the soccer ball,school supplies, etc., but real gifts of their time, love and respect for others -- and I purposely did not add the words "less fortunate." The gifts that were given to Bradley and Amanda -- were of equal value. Love, appreciation, respect and prayers -- how exquisitely powerful and personal.
Bradley and Amanda's travels have rekindled the feeling that sometimes -- no matter how young or old we are --we need to get outside of our "safe" space and live! The eternal gifts are the intangible memories and good deeds, not MACY'S!.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful family with me!!!!
XOXO PC
Bradley and Amanda,
I want to thank you for sharing this blog. Today it made me cry and have to read again. You will never forget this the rest of your lives. Whoever wrote that letter above said it all... and it was beautiful and true. I even passed this last blog on to Marla because it was so meaningful. Thank you again for sharing this beautiful experience.
Love you,
Carol S
I want to thank you for sharing this blog. Today it made me cry and have to read again. You will never forget this the rest of your lives. Whoever wrote that letter above said it all... and it was beautiful and true. I even passed this last blog on to Marla because it was so meaningful. Thank you again for sharing this beautiful experience.
Love you,
Carol S
Very well said by Patti!
Your blog was very moving and will stay with me forever!
You are wonderful and beautuful human beings who make all of us very proud.
Love,
Aunt Roz
Your blog was very moving and will stay with me forever!
You are wonderful and beautuful human beings who make all of us very proud.
Love,
Aunt Roz
Bradley and Amanda,
Your volunteering blog is so BEAUTIFUL! Patti said exactly what all of us reading your blogs are trying to convey. Wealth is not what we hold in our hands, but, what we hold in our hearts. Thank you for sharing your amazing journey. xxxxoooo
Love Aunt Sharon and Jay
Your volunteering blog is so BEAUTIFUL! Patti said exactly what all of us reading your blogs are trying to convey. Wealth is not what we hold in our hands, but, what we hold in our hearts. Thank you for sharing your amazing journey. xxxxoooo
Love Aunt Sharon and Jay
yessss, i hope i get that DH spot. just catching up on some of your blogs for the past few weeks. great stuff...i'll fill you in on my craziness soon enough. looks like you all are having an amzing time...i felt the good vibes from overseas. holla! RR
Wow! I agree with all the comments before me. I loved reading this last entry about your volunteering and looking at the pictures, too! I am truly amazed by your entries. Thank you for sharing them. I can't wait for the next one. Miss you guys.
Love- Rebecca
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